Dating Books by James Preece
Bestselling dating books and relationship guides from the UK’s leading dating coach, with 22+ years of experience. Learn how to date online, text with confidence, start conversations and find lasting love. Every book is available on Amazon UK and Amazon US.
Which dating book should you read first?
Not sure where to begin? Pick the area where you want help and start with the matching book.
Dating online
Start with I Will Make You Click, my Number One Amazon Bestseller on online dating.
Texting and messaging
Read How to Text Men for texting advice, and 101 Conversation Starters for things to say.
Meeting women with confidence
How to Talk to Girls and Flirty Banter help you start conversations and build confidence.
Choosing a dating agency
How to Choose a Dating Agency explains what to look for before you pay for a service.
Dating manners
The Dating Etiquette Guide covers modern dating etiquette so you make a great impression.
Building better habits
The Procrastination Cure and Self Discipline Mastery help you take action in life and love.
The best dating books from the UK’s best dating coach
As a UK dating coach and relationship expert, I love giving singles as much information as possible. As part of my strategy, I have written several bestselling dating books and relationship guides. Many of them have gone on to become Amazon bestsellers, and together they cover online dating, texting, conversation, flirting, dating etiquette and choosing a dating agency.
I Will Make You Click: my most popular online dating book
My most popular dating book, I Will Make You Click, is a Number One Amazon Bestseller. It includes lots of dating advice I have been teaching for over a decade, and it is still an extremely popular online dating book. I expand it and add new content each year, and I will be updating it again with new information about the best dating apps. So many apps have been developed that I could write many more dating books based on them alone.
Dating books for men and for women
I work with both single professional men and women, and the books reflect that. How to Text Men helps women with messaging, while How to Talk to Girls helps men build the confidence to start conversations. 101 Conversation Starters, Flirty Banter and Your Soulmate Is Waiting are for anyone who wants to connect better and meet the right person.
Dating advice for online dating, texting and first dates
Modern dating moves fast. Dating apps, messages and first dates all have their own rules, and small mistakes can cost you a match. My books give you simple, practical steps for each stage: writing a profile, sending the first message, keeping a conversation going, behaving well on a date and following up. The Dating Etiquette Guide covers the manners that make a great first impression.
Choosing a dating agency
If you are thinking about using a dating agency, How to Choose a Dating Agency explains what to look for and what to avoid. I work with 25+ UK dating agencies, so I know how the industry works. You can also read my dating agency advice or the dating blog.
Self improvement books to help you in life and love
Confidence and self discipline make a real difference in dating. The Procrastination Cure and Self Discipline Mastery help you build habits, take action and stop putting off the things that matter, including meeting new people.
From dating books to personal dating coaching
My books are just the start of the adventure. If you would like more detailed and personalised advice, you can book dating coaching directly with me, face to face or over Zoom. You can also listen to the Dating Podcast, join the dating newsletter or find out more about me.
Reviews and new books
My aim is to make these books as fun, affordable and interesting as possible, so there is something for everyone. If you enjoy one, I would really appreciate a review on Amazon, because it helps other people benefit from my dating and relationship advice. I will be bringing out new books on a variety of dating and lifestyle topics. If there is a subject I have not covered yet, please get in touch, and I might add it to my list.
Dating books: your questions
What are the best dating books?
The best dating book depends on what you need. I Will Make You Click is the most popular and covers online dating. How to Text Men and 101 Conversation Starters help with messaging, How to Talk to Girls and Flirty Banter build confidence, and How to Choose a Dating Agency guides you through agencies.
What is James Preece’s most popular dating book?
I Will Make You Click is the most popular. It is a Number One Amazon Bestseller.
Where can I buy James Preece’s dating books?
All of the books are available on Amazon. Each book on this page has a link to Amazon UK and Amazon US.
Are the dating books for men and women?
Yes. There are dating books for both. How to Text Men is written for women, How to Talk to Girls is written for men, and titles such as I Will Make You Click and the Dating Etiquette Guide suit everyone.
Is there a dating book about online dating and dating apps?
Yes. I Will Make You Click is my online dating book, and I update it every year. New information about the best dating apps is planned.
Will James release new dating books?
Yes. New books on a variety of dating and lifestyle topics are planned. If there is a subject you would like covered, get in touch through the contact page.
Can I get personalised advice instead of a book?
Yes. Books are a great start, but if you want personal dating advice you can book dating coaching with me, face to face or over Zoom.
Who writes these dating books?
James Preece, a UK dating coach and relationship expert with 22+ years of experience, author of 15+ books and host of the Dating Podcast.
Want personal dating advice?
Books are a great start. For advice built around you, book a private dating coaching session with James.











