How to Date a Celebrity

How to date a celebrity is a question many of my dating coaching clients ask me. We’ve all got ideals about meeting the celebrity of our dreams. Of course, we shrug it off and tell ourselves it’s just a fantasy. It’s not like we could ever have these famous people in real life, right? Wrong! It’s actually more common that celebrities looking for a real relationship go outside the famous dating pool. They don’t want to pair up with another star, because they don’t want the publicity. They want something that is going to last, which is uncommon in famous relationships. Of course, some only date other famous people. Those are likely the kind you don’t want to date anyway. Not if you’re looking for love.

If you are looking for learn how to date a celebrity where do you start?

Well, there’s not exactly a road map on how to date a celebrity. But, there are some pretty good ideas out there on where to meet them. Let’s take a look at the places celebrities might be, available for conversation:

Grand Openings & Galas

These places are bound to be cluttered with a variety of different people. Among them, you’re bound to find celebrities who are making an appearance for one reason or another. Some of them are contractually obligated to go to big events. These ones are likely bored and looking for any distraction from the night that mirrors so many they’ve already had. You’ll be the perfect way to mix up their routine.

Hot Spots

There are cities and locations known to draw in celebrities. Whether it’s a coffee shop or a nightclub. Even famous faces want to mix in with the crowd every once in a while. You might catch your celebrity crush getting a latte or early morning breakfast. They might be dressed down to blend in. Approaching them like this is a good idea, if you’re doing it properly! As a celebritiy dating coach I know that running up and saying you’re their biggest fan will only get you the eye roll. If you want to make an impression, strike up a casual conversation. They are just people, after all. How would you react to a random non-famous person you wanted to talk to? Well, do that!

Introduction Agencies

Dating is hard for celebrities. That’s why there a select few celebrity introduction agencies out there who can help.  These aren’t cheap but if you have the money you can be meeting them in no time.

Now that you have an idea of where to look, you might wonder what to do or what to say.

The most important thing to remember is that you want to be yourself. Sure, you can turn up your charm a little higher. But, they aren’t looking for someone who feels like Hollywood, fake and rehearsed. They want something different. Something real. So, be real with them. You don’t need to exaggerate your accomplishments or lie about what you do for a living. Even if you’re a cashier or a janitor. It may be tempting to try and be someone more impressive. You just have to keep in mind, that’s not what they are looking for.

The best way to learn how to date a celebrity is just being relaxed. Be your usual awesome self and they are bound to notice you. They are looking for someone who is laid back, yet interesting. Even if you don’t think you are, your simple life may be interesting enough to them. Especially if they have never had the simple life.

Really, it’s going to be your confidence that determines your ability to date a celebrity. If you lack confidence, no one is going to notice you. Confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear. So, get dressed and get shining!