How To Make A Girl Like You

 

There is nothing girls like more than confidence. A man who is comfortable in his own skin is attractive to almost any woman. As much as you want to impress a girl you like, you don’t want to come across as someone you aren’t. There’s a difference between a good impression and falsifying who you are. It’s not always easy to find the right balance. If it feels natural to you, then it’s more likely to be successful. If you do slip up or make yourself look silly, don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself. Always try and be the best version of your authentic self. You don’t want to come across as “trying too hard”.

Of course, that’s not the only way to make someone interested. In addition, there are things you can do right now to learn how to make a girl like you. As a leading Dating Coach for Men I wanted to share all the secrets with you today.

 

Pay Attention to How You’re Carrying Yourself

 

As mentioned, confidence is important. One of the ways you can display your confidence is by walking/sitting with your shoulders back. Your posture says a lot about you and how you feel about yourself. It also displays how you handle stress in your day-to-day life. Similarly, your body language can speak louder than any words you use. You want to open, but not intimidating. You want to be alert, but not obsessed. If you can read others’ body language, you should be good. If you can’t, you might want to learn. You may also want to note that direct eye contact is important.

 

Maintain Good Personal Hygiene

 

No one likes a slob, that’s just a fact. If you want to learn how to make a girl like you, you’re going to have to pay close attention to your personal hygiene. You want to be clean and well-groomed. Many girls are drawn in by the way a man presents himself. This can include the wardrobe, being shaved, and even wearing cologne. By keeping up on your personal hygiene, you’ll make a better impression. This may also include your living space, which should be clean any time she might come over.

 

Engage in Conversation

 

Naturally, you’re going to want to try and engage in conversation if you want to know how to make a girl like you. You’ll talk about things you have in common and things you don’t. While this is important, it’s not the only element of conversation. The bigger part of a conversation is listening. When she talks, you want to genuinely listen to what she might be saying. There are a few tricks to show a woman that you’re listening to her. You can repeat things she’s said back to her. You can ask her questions to clarify something she’s said. You can follow along by adjusting your body language to fit her words. Be supportive when she speaks. Be attentive. If she doesn’t reciprocate that, she’s not interested.

 

Don’t Be Afraid to Share¬†

 

When you want someone to like you, you have to show them pieces of yourself that you may feel uncomfortable sharing. You have to let yourself be vulnerable. You don’t have to pour your heart out when you meet someone new, but you want to let them get close to you. Everyone starts small, with trivial things about themselves such as favourite color or TV shows. As you get to know someone, you want to share more about who you are as a person. Not your hobbies or interests, but things that make you who you are. This includes letting the person know how you’re feeling about them. Subtle hints aren’t the best approach, but if that’s all you can manage, you can try that. Openness is an attractive quality, just try not to over do it.

 

Don’t Lose Yourself in Your Pursuit

 

We’ve all been in the “newly in love” stage, and in that stage, it’s easy to lose sight of yourself. You get carried away with trying to put your best foot forward. You want to know everything about the other person, maybe going as far as taking up some of their hobbies. While this is a good way to develop that relationship, it can be easy to lose track of your own hobbies. You want a life outside of this other person. Make sure you’re making time for yourself, your friends, and your hobbies. If you don’t feel like you’re interesting enough, you may want to work on yourself a bit before trying to get a girl to like you.

 

Don’t Focus on the “End Game”

 

Many girls can tell when a guy is only pretending to be interested for another reason. You never want a girl to be questioning your intentions. Along with being open with your thoughts and feelings, you want to enjoy the time you’re spending together. If your goal is a relationship, then nurture the connection. If you just want to see where things go, then let the relationship develop naturally.

How to Make a Girl Like You Conclusion

 

Don’t force this but take your time and focus on getting to know her properly. Just make sure you brush up on your best flirting techniques and make her feel as comfortable as possible!

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James Preece
Dating Coach and Dating Expert at The Dating Guru
James Preece is the Dating Guru.

He is the UK's leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert, helping 1000s find love each year.