So what makes a man fall in love ? It may be hard to believe, but men tend to fall in love for many of the same reasons that women do. Literally, it’s all about the chemical reaction in our brains. Men look for certain qualities in women that they deem desirable. The same as women look for those qualities in men. The chemicals in our bodies will often tip us off to potential suitors through different reactions. Increased nerves, sweating, seeming to forget what you were about to say. All those annoying things that happen when you see someone your body likes.

But, surely there’s more to falling in love than a chemical reaction, right? As a Dating Coach I know that there is more to the process than that! Sure, our bodies choose a potential mate. That doesn’t mean that person is going to be a good selection. We determine suitability through many different things. These ways will make you fall in love, or completely turn you away.

Conversation Makes a Man Fall In Love

Many men fall in love through conversation with someone. It’s not enough to simply talk and share, even if laughs are involved. To fall in love through conversation, the sentences have to go deep into the soul. When you’re talking to someone and you feel comfortable getting personal with them it means the walls have fallen. Without the walls protecting you, you are completely open and vulnerable. While that’s a scary thought, it means you’re comfortable enough with someone to trust them completely.

Support

Another reason men tend to fall in love is when they feel supported by someone. When they are encouraged, they fell more confident. If a women makes a man confident in himself, he’s bound to want to keep her around. If she makes him doubt himself, it’s unlikely he would ever fall in love. Support includes being able to express emotion, even when it’s painful. This can be important to a man who has had trouble opening up in the past. Sometimes all it takes it a supportive woman encouraging the progress.

Sex

While we don’t like to think sex plays an important part, it really does. This is where our bodies decide the compatibility of one another. If you’re physically compatible, it’s more likely that you’ll be emotionally compatible. Consider that sex isn’t just about the physical pleasure. Having an emotional connection to someone can make the whole experience more intense. If something is amazing, you’ll want more of it. This is why so many men will fall in love based on amazing sex.

Connecting Makes a Man Fall in Love Forever

The things that makes a man fall in love really boil down to is a deep emotional connection. This becomes evident through great conversation and being able to finish each other’s sentences. It’s obvious when you completely let your guard down and feel like you can be yourself. When you feel comfortable with being open and vulnerable with someone, you’re likely falling in love. When the sex feels intense and enjoyable and freeing all at the same time. Human beings as a whole need to feel connected to someone in order to let the walls down around them. We can only really feel anything, including love, when the walls are down.

It may be hard to believe, but men tend to fall in love for many of the same reasons that women do. Literally, it’s all about the chemical reaction in our brains. Men look for certain qualities in women that they deem desireable. The same as women look for those qualities in men. The chemicals in our bodies will often tip us off to potential suitors through different reactions. Increased nerves, sweating, seeming to forget what you were about to say. All those annoying things that happen when you see someone your body likes.

But, surely there’s more to falling in love than a chemical reaction, right? Of course there is more to the process than that! Sure, our bodies choose a potential mate. That doesn’t mean that person is going to be a good selection. We determine suitability through many different things. These are what makes a man fall in love or completely turn away.

 

James Preece
Dating Coach and Dating Expert at The Dating Guru

James Preece is the Dating Guru.


He is the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert, helping 1000s find love each year.


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