What to Talk About on Tinder

Tinder is undoubtedly one of the best online dating apps. More and more people, both young and old, have begun to use this platform to get dates and, if all goes well, find love. It is a reputable platform that has been in service for a few years now. There are many factors that will make you successful in dating. However, the conversation is what determines if you are going to proceed with the process or not. So, would you like to know what to talk about on Tinder to get dates?

Well the first thing to consider is that your chances of getting a girl to date you are greatly linked to the conversation you strike up. The conversation should be positive i.e. one that makes the girl feel good. But how will you know what to talk about with a girl? How will you know that whatever you are going to talk about will make her happy? Actually, the answer is lies in doing deep research on the dating profile. All the information about the girl can be found in her profile. You will be able to get all the information about her hobbies. This will lay the basis of what you are going to talk about on Tinder.

Start a conversation by trying to appreciate the girl.

You can do this by having a good look at the profile pictures. It is important however, not to appear desperate. This will give the girl a bad impression about you or even scare the girl away. E.g. ‘”Hi Faith, I like your hair, it looks great.” That’s just creepy.  Instead, comment on something she is doing in her photos.  In doing that, you will make the girl more confident. If you are not creative enough to start a conversation, there are a number of great lines that will help kick start your conversation. For example, “Should we tell our grandparents that we met on Tinder?” Although some of these lines work, it is important to consider the responsive nature of the girl.

A girl will tend to throw questions at you in a bid to know you more. It is important to be honest while answering the questions. However, how you respond to these questions will determine a lot in the dating process. If for example she asks you what you are doing, be honest and proud of your job and answer back confidently without hesitation. If you are jobless, don’t go ahead and tell her so. Be creative enough and always positive. You can say something like “I am starting a new business endeavor”. This will leave room for imagination and you won’t corner yourself. Even so, try not to exaggerate your “lies”. Lies at the beginning of any dating process will ultimately catch up to you.

It is important however to note that there are general rules to apply while dating. The first is that you should not show the girl that you are too desperate. This won’t help you in any way and your chances of ever getting the girl to date you will be reduced to none. On the plus side, always consider using lines that trigger an emotional response. Women tend to be very emotional and in doing so, they will come looking for you. Your job will be simplified greatly! I do hope this post has helped you learn what to talk about on Tinder

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James Preece
Dating Coach and Dating Expert at The Dating Guru
James Preece is the Dating Guru.

He is the UK's leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert, helping 1000s find love each year.