How to tell if a girl likes you

Women are complex. They can be emotional and indecisive about most aspects of life, but when it comes to the opposite sex they know what and who they want.

They can spot a player and a complete idiot a mile off, so you’ll need to be on you’re “A” game from the get-go. If you approach a woman on a night out, the first thing she will do is review your appearance.

It takes less than a second to know if they are initially attracted to you. If you pass that test you immediately jump to Stage 2: Conversation. If you are not her type physically, it might not be game over just yet.

Not every girl has a type. Some go for personality or others look for things like good height, decent teeth and kind eyes. There are plenty of women  who aren’t too fussed about the way a man looks if mentally he is rocking her world, but others are more rigid in their requirements. It is those women that you can immediately rule out if you are not ticking her boxes in the looks department, as even the most funny and charming man will still end up friend zoned. Sadly that’s just the way it is!

The most reliable sign to look out for if you want to know how to tell if a girl likes you , is flirting. Some women don’t realize they are flirting, it’s just in their nature to be a bit more giggly than most so bare that in mind. As general rule though, flirting is a very positive sign that she is into you. Her body will speak for its self; she might lean in very close while talking, place her hand on your arm or play with her own hair. Look for a chain of signals rather than just one or two if you really want to learn how to tell if a girl likes you.

Direct eye contact is another big give away. If you are chatting away and notice her just staring at you intensely, just know she is probably imagining what it would be like to kiss you. If she is smiling as well as staring she is probably imagining more! Yes, ladies have filthy minds too!. Awkwardness to begin may play a part. I asked a female dating coaching client about this. She told me that if she REALLY like a guys she is guaranteed to say at least 3 dumb things during that date. It takes a glass or two of wine before many women can really relax and be themselves. Never go beyond that as alcohol and dating aren’t a great mix if either of you go overboard!

When a girl likes a guy, she will make it her mission to find out as much about him as possibly without looking like a stalker. In return, she may offer up some personal info as well (not too much of course.) After all, you could still turn out to be a loser or some kind of freak).

So there you have it! Look out for the signs, trust your gut instinct and remember you only get one shot at a first impression, so make it a great one.   

If you’d like some help learning to attract women for long term relationships then do get in touch with me today.  As a leading relationship expert  can help you learn how to tell if a girl likes you at any stage or dating!